How to listen and help to untie the emotional knots of a child?
Always let him express his emotion, accompany the discharge of tears, cries, tremors, without trying to calm him down. Crying, shouting, trembling, are his ways of telling his suffering, of releasing his tensions, of recovering himself.
Trust his skills. He knows what is good for him. If you know how to stay present, listen, accompany the tears, after the explosion will come relaxation, confidence, bodily well-being.